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Syringomyelia, Welcome to HELLo

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Although Syringomyelia may seem like hell at times and for some nearly all the time, but it also seems to be an interesting way to meet people and say HELLo. 

I find the majority of my comfort with my family, the beach and resting but I also enjoy writing these stories, perspectives and a few good laughs.  This often results in my wife and I meeting new folks.  We love saying HELLo to everyone and hopefully cheer up their day and raise awareness.

We obviously can’t take the pain away from anyone, but a little lighthearted / funny, inspirational, and personal experiences may just be that quick physical or emotional pain vacation that someone needs.

Both Christy and I were brought up to love everyone and this is how we are bringing up our Michael and Christy - SyrinGoWhat.comdaughter as well.  As a matter of fact my wife recently saw an older person and said, “Kaylea and I love old people.”  However, me being older than Christy, I had the opportunity to point out the foot that she just had stuck in her mouth as I did my best to keep a straight face while laughing VERY hard on the inside. 

We are like any other couple with ups and downs, difference of opinions, etc.  Yet, we always agree that a simple HELLo can make a person’s day.  We also agree that tickling a person when they have gas can turn into some interesting aromatic entertainment unless your spooning.  No this is NOT just an Arkansas thing.  🙂

Syringomyelia SUCKS and we ALL can agree on that but the worst thing any of us can do is alienate ourselves or descend into a darkness of ‘no one understands’.  There are plenty of people that ‘understand’ and I’ve listed lots of support groups for SM / CM warriors along with those that love and care for them on this page – http://syringowhat.com/is-there-support-for-syringomyelia-Chiari

I would give this advise, one that sometimes I mess up, be open about what you are going through.  Also, be receptive to how it makes those around you feel.  You might find out that you both are affected by this disease, just in different ways.  Understanding this is EXTREMELY important!

Syringomyelia, Group Hug - SyrinGoWhat.comAnyhow, don’t be a stranger, share your stories, fellowship with others (with or with out your disease), never be afraid to laugh a little and just say HELLo.

If you see a post from us on Facebook or anywhere else for that matter, please feel free to say HELLo and we will do the same. 

1 Thessalonians 5:11 NIV So then, encourage one another and build each other up, as you are doing.

Please feel free to send me your thoughts or more resource links using my contact page.   Peace, Love, Pancakes… — Michael Doc Davis (SyrinGoWhat.com), fellow Syringomyelian

Syringomyelia and the Cycle of Strife

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Syringomyelia seems to be a never ending cycle of strife.  What do I mean by that?  Well, what I mean is there seems to be a never ending bitter argument between how I think my body should feel or what it can do and what Syringomyelia thinks.  If I could kick my Syringomyelia’s butt, I would, but I think that might hurt a little since we share the same butt.  🙂

There also seems to be a never ending argument between those of us with Syringomyelia, doctors and other people that don’t understand it.  Actually I really don’t understand it either but I know how it makes me feel. 

Syringomyelia, Wheel Of SymptomsI wake up and it feels like I am in some crazy game show where my body spins a ‘wheel of symptoms’ each morning.  Monday, strange sensations in the legs.  Tuesday, right leg is better than the left.  Wednesday, spasms started and there isn’t an off or undo button.  Thursday seem to be a really good day until I freak’n sneezed and there went the feeling in my toes.  Friday… who cares, it’s FRIDAY!  So this circle of strife just keeps on spinning but I WILL NOT LET SYRINGOMYELIA BEAT ME! 

There are sometimes that I think I can’t win and then God fills my heart full of love or my wife and daughter love on me and POOF, I’m back in the ring to fight the next round.  Each day I’m here, I look for the positives.  Every time there is a new or different symptom, I always try to thank God for all of the many blessings He provides.  Each day I am on this Earth, I win.  Each day I wake, I see my wife and daughter.  Each day I make it through, is another day I’m closer to God’s promise. 

I'm the BOSS over SyringomeliaI will never see eye to eye with this Syringomyelia, especially when it thinks it’s the boss.  I am in control, I just let it think it is.  Syringomyelia and I have something in common though.  In my household, I am the boss but only when my wife lets me.  I wear the pants in the family, mainly because my wife doesn’t like wearing pants.  Ha!

All joking aside, know that you are in control of your own outlook on life.  Syringomyelia will try to persuade you to a more negative aspect but just tell it to kiss your butt.  You got this!!!  I got this!!!  We got this!!!  Say it loud… say it proud… SYRINGOMYELIA!!!  YOU WILL NOT BEAT ME!!!

To all of you, I pray that you have increased or continued strength, better health and blessings every day.

Isaiah 41:10 NIV fear not, for I am with you;  be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you,  I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Please feel free to send me your thoughts or more resource links using my contact page.   Peace, Love, Pancakes… — Michael Doc Davis (SyrinGoWhat.com), fellow Syringomyelian

Syringomyelia – He Said, She Said

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With Syringomyelia, there are two sides to every story.  The side of the person suffering from the disease and the person suffering that feels like they are unable to help.

When I met the love of my life, I thought I had Syringomyelia under control.  This seems to not be the case and it has become harder for my wife and I to accept.

The purpose of this story or blog is help those in the same situation to know that they are not the only one(s) in this boat without a paddle.

Syringomyelia - He Said, She SaidWhen I met my wife, it seemed that all of the issues related to Syringomyelia faded to the back of my mind.  Love is an incredible pain-killer.

Where we are now in dealing with this disease is not a place neither of us want to be in.  She has a perspective that is quite different from my own.  Even though that may be the case, I would NEVER say, “You don’t have Syringomyelia, so you don’t understand.”  We both suffer from this disease in our own way but together.  It’s truly a ‘He Said, She Said’ or ‘He feels, She Feels’ scenario.

It’s a lot like this for us:

  • He said: I hate hurting
  • She said: I hate that you hurt
  • He said: I wish the pain would go away
  • She said: I wish I could take the pain away
  • He said: I don’t want to talk about the pain and weakness
  • She said: Please talk to me about what is bothering you
  • He said: I don’t seem to be ticklish 
  • She said: Oh crap!  I am!
  • He said: I’m hurting
  • She said: It hurts me that you are hurting
  • He said: I can handle this
  • She said: I will be there for you
  • He said: I wish I didn’t feel helpless in fighting this
  • She said: I wish I didn’t feel helpless in helping you
  • He said: I want to be alone
  • She said: You can be alone but with me 🙂
  • He said: You should be with someone who is healthy
  • She said: Your love is the healthy that I need 🙂
  • He said: I’m tired of being tired
  • She said: Just rest, I’ve got this
  • He said: I don’t want to take anymore pills
  • She said: I wish you didn’t need to, but it helps and I’ll get them for you
  • He said: I’m tired of doctors
  • She said: I know that you are, but we need to get as much help as we can
  • He said: I love you
  • She said: I love you more

Syringomyelia - He Said, She SaidMy wife’s support is my life support and is better than any doctor, prescription, exercise or treatment that I could ever receive.  Neither of us understand Syringomyelia but we always try to understand each other.  She suffers with me and that hurts my heart.  It is just as hard for me to understand what she is going through as it is for her to understand what I’m going through.  The key for us is to listen to each other and TALK about it.  

For a person to simply discount the other’s pain because it’s not the same, is creating their own prison of pain.  I never want to be that kind of person.  As a person suffering from this disease, I hate it!  As my wife, she hates it just as much if not more.  

If you suffer from Syringomyelia or any disease for that matter, don’t think someone else doesn’t understand just because they don’t suffer from it too.  They are your cell mate.  Why let it be solitary confinement?  Why would you push people away and then say you are ‘alone’?  Open your heart, open your mind and for God’s sake open your mouth.  If they love you or care for you, then talk to them, love them and know that they are on your side.  

My wife isn’t a caregiver, she is my wife!

Proverbs 31:10-31 NIV An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar.

Please feel free to send me your thoughts or more resource links using my contact page.   Peace, Love, Pancakes and Mermaids… — Michael Doc Davis (SyrinGoWhat.com), fellow Syringomyelian

Syringomyelia, Race to Win!

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The runners get in position on the starting line.  The tension is building.  They grind their shoes in for the best grip on the track.  The announcer fires the starter pistol into the air and they’re off.

I take an early lead but only by a single stride.  My competition is staying within a foot length behind me as we round the first curve to the back straight away.  I trip, fall and I seem to be struggling to find my footing.  My competition passes on the inside.  I get Syringomyelia, crash but not outup but I’m not running as fast.  Still, I keep up with my competition and slowly close the gap.  I go down again in the final curve.  Am I done… am I out… NO!  I look to the crowd and see my family and supporters.  My wife and daughter proudly cheer me on. This is the energy I need.  I spring to my feet with determination in my eyes.  Even with a battered body I push to catch up to my competition and make my way to the finish line.  I close the gap once more and find myself step for step beside my competition.  We break through the finish line tape with my Syringomyelia, racing a turtlecompetition, the turtle, as the winner.

My supporters make their way to field to embrace me.  My head held high knowing that I kept fighting, I kept pushing and I won in my own way.  A single kiss from my wife, a hug from my daughter, the love from them all and the strength from God is what made these races worth racing.  With renewed strength, I make ready for the next race.

Although the above wasn’t an actual race, this race is my daily fight with Syringomyelia.  At times I feel like it’s slow and that I could be beaten by a turtle but I will keep racing and I will keep pushing to cross those finish lines.  I will get back up when I fall.  

Supporters support by pushing us to succeed.God, my wife, my daughter, family and supporters are my energy.  There is always hope!  There is always the race. We can ALL win our own races!  

Dig in, get ready, GO, get up and GO again!

If you are a spouse, loved one, family member, friend or even placing bets that we will win… please just know that YOU are the energy we need.  We may not always show how much it means to us but we know that we are blessed to have you in the race stands, by our sides and in our lives.

Syringomyelia is a race and an internal fight.  We can all win our own victories and together we can win a gold metal.

Please Note:  No turtles were hurt in the making of this story.  We even stop on the road to move them to the side.  🙂

Psalm 18:32-34  NIV the God who equipped me with strength and made my way blameless. He made my feet like the feet of a deer  and set me secure on the heights. He trains my hands for war, so that my arms can bend a bow of bronze.

Please feel free to send me your thoughts or more resource links using my contact page.   Peace, Love, Pancakes and Mermaids… — Michael Doc Davis (SyrinGoWhat.com), fellow Syringomyelian

Syringomyelia, through the eyes and from the heart of my wife and caregiver

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(A blog post from my wife and caregiver, Christy Davis) Syringomyelia is a horrible and debilitating disease. I had no idea just how bad this disease is until recently.

Michael, has harbored this since before we met. He mentioned it here and there since we met in November 2011, but never in much detail. He was so active and constantly on the go. I just thought he was okay and if not he would tell me. During our dating period we were ALWAYS on the go; from runaway beach trips, road trips to state parks, comedy club and other adventures. On May 25, 2013 we left early for Pensacola Beach, I thought it was just one of our spontaneous beach runaway adventures. Michael proposed to me on the beach, that night, as the moon was rising behind him. I had no idea! Luckiest girl in the world! We had a lovely wedding and a wonderful time on our honeymoon. It was around that time when I started noticing something wasn’t right. 

Syringomyelia from the eyes and heart of my wife and caregiverI feel extremely guilty that I didn’t ask more questions and learn more about it in the beginning. To speak the truth, it scares the hell out of me. I have picked up information from his website, other stories on listed forums and other websites. For about the last seven months I have watched Michael become more and more less active. During the week and weekend it’s a constant battle with pain and extreme tiredness. Kaylea and I do not like leaving him at home when we go out. Syringomyelia can kiss it. In the future, if Michael can’t go we won’t go.

I will do everything I can to help him and be there for him. From back rubs deep into the night Syringomyelia from the eyes and heart of my wife and caregiver(every night), doing my best to keep him on track with medicine, making sure he has healthy meals cooked with turmeric, ginger, etc. and doing my best to keep the house in order. I will not be like any normal caregiver, because I’m far from normal by all means. I prefer the word wife because I said “I do” to all vows including “in sickness and in health.” I will not be going anywhere. My roll does not change and I will always be here for him.

It relieves some anxiety knowing that we have an upcoming appointment for new MRI’s and will soon have an appointment with a neurosurgeon. I will be there for all of this, too. I will make sure he gets the best care before, during and after all procedures.

Psalm 18:2 NIV The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.

Please feel free to send me your thoughts or more resource links using my contact page.   Peace, Love and Pancakes… oh yeah and wishes of many ocean waves — Michael Doc Davis (SyrinGoWhat.com)

Why ask Why? Syringomyelia Shouldn’t be a mystery!

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I found that when working with doctors that I made several mistakes by assuming that the doctors knew everything.  No human can.  Part of their training is instilling confidence in their patients.  Some doctors translated this into ‘never act like you don’t know something’. 

This situation can be a big risk or no true path to dealing with the root cause of symptoms.  I’ve learned to ask the doctor questions when they suggest a treatment, a prescription or nothing at all.  The doctor should be able to answer any of your questions if they are providing an action plan.  My suggestion is to ask questions, mainly ‘Why?’. 

When you interview your doctor, you may just help him or her discover that they may need to learn a little more about Syringomyelia.  I have another post on my website called ‘Syringomyelia Caregiver Quick-Tip Pocket Guide‘ that contains a document from wstfcure.org.  This is a great packet to hand your doctor.

Here are some of the questions I try to ask:

  • Why would this affect that and how?
  • Why are we doing another MRI?
  • Why are you prescribing this medication and how will it help?
  • Why or how will increasing the dosage of my medication help?
  • Why am I being referred to a different or another doctor?
  • Why do I not feel like I am stabilizing or getting better?
  • Why would you think that my disease isn’t the cause of my pain?
  • Why can’t we try something different than what just treats symptoms?
  • Why would you ‘think’ you know and is it wise to base my treatment on that?
  • Why would you prescribe physical therapy as a cure if some of those activities could make it worse?
  • Why do you think stretching fixes my issues?
  • Why wouldn’t you want to know more about Syringomyelia?  Here is a packet.

Some times I just want to start asking random questions just to see how they respond:

  • Why is the sky blue?
  • Why did I have to wait so long?
  • Why is this room so dang cold?
  • Why would a person feel that another person’s time isn’t as important as their own?

There are plenty of more questions that I ask.  However, many times I seem to not be given enough time to ask them or feel rushed and I forget.  I need to remember that I am paying for a service and I should be satisfied by that service.  I need to MAKE the doctor think and learn before just throwing suggestions and treatments at me.  I AM IN CONTROL!!!  I need to always write down every question I want answered and my doctor will need to answer each one.  This is my life, my appointment and my money.  So now I ask you this… Why not ask why or what or how or when? 

Remember this my friends, you are in control.  You got this!

Deuteronomy 31:6 NIV Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Please feel free to send me your thoughts or more resource links using my contact page.   Peace, Love and Pancakes — Michael Doc Davis (SyrinGoWhat.com)

Is it or is it not from Syringomyelia?

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Some of the suckiest (likely not a word) things about having Syringomyelia is that it’s difficult to know if what is going on with your body is related to it or not.  Since Syringomyelia affects your nerves and the muscles controlled by them, one can confuse a byproduct of the disease, something directly related to it or not related to it at all.  An example would be your back causing leg muscle weakness making you not walk in the way your body is designed causing your knee to hurt.  Once your knee hurts, you walk less and this causes muscle atrophy which causes more pain.  This type of knee pain and muscle atrophy wasn’t directly caused by the disease.  There are even times that side effects of the medications I have to take resemble symptoms from the disease.  With that being said, medications are not always the answer.  It gets easy to blame Syringomyelia for everything that hurts or doesn’t work right but I’m starting to realized this isn’t always the case!  I will continue to push myself, exercise, stretch, and work hard to walk properly.  Don’t get me wrong, Syringomyelia causes a lot of issues mentioned on the ‘What is it?‘ page.  This is NOT a disorder, it IS a disease that has NO cure but I will NOT just accept ‘It is what it is’ and I WILL live and love my life.  The lessons learned for me are that not everything is what it appears to be and always think more broadly than what your doctor will. 

Please keep everyone that is suffering from this and other diseases in your prayers.  God listens and God heals!  

Exodus 23:25 NIV “Worship the LORD your God, and his blessing will be on your food and water. I will take away sickness from among you,”

Please feel free to send me your thoughts using my contact page. — Michael Doc Davis (SyringGWhat.com)

Life’s little victories over Syringomyelia

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Life’s little victories for some are not the same as it is with others.  As a person with Syringomyelia these victories for me come in the forms of being able to wake up in the morning, lift my leg or legs to take a step, have a few seconds without pain or a moment when I can feel a part of my body that I haven’t felt in some time.  I count myself lucky.  There are some in much worse situations than mine that are just happy to be able to breath, not have a headache for a full day or even a few minutes or knowing when they need to use the bathroom.  Although I have been handed a deck that is stacked against me, I still feel blessed.  This could be far worse but God is working to keep my disease in check.  I thank Him daily and I do not blame Him.  For more on my story on how all this craziness started, just look at the about page on this website.

I thank you all for your prayers and love.  Keep smiling and laughing my friends.  Life is entirely too short not too.

Deuteronomy 28:2 NIV “All these blessings will come upon you and accompany you if you obey the LORD your God:”

Please feel free to send me your thoughts using my contact page. — Michael Doc Davis (SyrinGoWhat.com)

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